Sunday 15 December 2013

Life, what is it?

In last few days, I have read many posts related to life and meaning of it and also met a couple of people, obviously elders who have well explained me the meaning of life. Moreover, I am free these days and when someone is free, there 'Deep Thinking' mode switches on.

So, what is life? What is the reason we are living? Who is the creator? Is GOD real or just a myth? Are we in a dream, a state of illusion where we are tending to believe anything and everything? Just like the movie, Matrix, is it possible that we are living in a virtual world? Universe, what is it, just simply infinite empty space? Why is the reason that we have accommodated and accepted the belief that there is another life after death? Why do we suffer in agony and pain, but still live the shit life thinking that we have only one life, who knows where would we go after death?

Well, I can write and ask a hell lot of questions apart from these and not only me, there are millions like me who are depersonalized and who are desperate to know everything. But, we are restrained in such a world, in such a life where we learn to accept whatever is thought to us, whatever is fed to us and believes in whatever the world is believing. There are two kinds of people, one who accepts and believes in whatever he sees and the other who takes a separate lane, takes a different route to know the answer to every question but the similarity between both of them is that they wind up dead at some point, without getting any answer.

Well, although I'll remain in dilemma till my death whether we are actually living or it's just a fantasy world but still, everyone is here to live a good life, an enjoyable one without any problems, no atrocities just happiness.
Now, if asked the question of 'How to enjoy life', everyone would have different answers.

What I have experienced and what I have learnt from many people, Life is another word for emotions as well as relations. If you ask any other person, the 1st word which will come out would be Money and in fact there is no doubt about it. Money would provide you anything even happiness. But what I believe and I would repeat again, Life is simply Emotions and Relations.

You would be a millionaire, but what if you don't have any relations. Relations come handy with emotions, No emotions No relations. A friend taught me something which was and is indeed very useful, 'It doesn't matter whether you call or message someone first and it does not matter if it happens every time, what matters is that you keep the bond alive, you keep the relation alive!'

Everyone is busy with their life, you move away to different places, you will have different friends there, different routines, different priorities but what remains same is your bonding with the person whom you left behind. A simple remembrance via message or call from your so called busy schedule won't hurt anyone, but would only be a way to rejoice. Ego won't bring anything good but would simply kill any relation, stop all the emotions and causes a catastrophe in everyone's life.

You will anyhow end your life with death, but at that time, when you'll recall everything, you won't remember money, you won't remember the places you visited but you would remember, the people with whom you spent the money, the people with whom you went to various places, the people with whom you enjoyed, the people with whom you shared your happiness.

Life is a mixture of emotions and relations. A perfect quantity of each could bring wonders not only to you but to everyone who is connected with you. If you maintain a relation, you can maintain anything.